How to Seduce a Man: Your Looks

"Oooook... here comes a male advice on how should a girl look like... yikes!", you say. Yes, I am now going to tell you how to pump up your boobs like a Baywatch starlet and let your thongs peek 6 inches out of the back of your low rise jeans. No, I am just kidding.

Most girls I have spoke with have the wrong picture about men, when it comes to their opinion about female looks. They see us like Palaeolithic sapiens monkeys who get their saliva-leaking jaws open at the very sight of a female buttock or a breast. This is only a partial truth. Furthermore, many girls enhance their looks in a way that only impresses other females, not men. This is the mistake number 1 when it comes to female looks, so I will now try to explain.



Although not all humans are visual types, looks are the most important for the first impression. Some men are more impressed by words or touching than looks, and this works later. So what is it that they want to see, then? Well, if you need an answer on how to seduce a man, its not about the sexy outfit. You want to seduce him, not to give him a hard-on.

What's the difference? Well, most mature and strong men are not seduced only by your looks. They may instantly approach you and express they sexual interest, and this is honest, but that doesn't mean they are seduced. Seduction comes later, your looks will give you just a chance to seduce him. So looks are important, but remember that is only the entry ticket to a hallway of his life. From there on, other things will decide if you'll step to the main room or back to the front door.

Now here is the male advice, girls: Yes, you should wear sexy, but not slutty. Make a difference. Draw the line. I am telling you: If you look too sexual, most men of worth will think "Ok, there's nothing hidden, nothing mysterious about this girl". You can still seduce him later, even if perceived as a cheap slut at first, but you will need to spend more time and energy then, why not go the easier way?

The easiest way will be to look sexy, but with a style. And stylish doesn't mean unattractive! Most girls know that they should not look too sexual, and I see them all making the same mistake: wearing some unattractive "stylish looking" designer clothes which make them look more like a transsexual hippy than a girl. Don't do that, girls. Be more sexual! Forget about the brands and their stories; there are some archetypic clothing details that work all the time.

First of all: heels. Every female leg on this planet looks better wearing heels. It gives instant femininity. Men love to see heels, women love to see heels, we all love them, but not all girls wear them. Why, for God's sake? You want to be different? Great! Being different is the key to seduction, but not being different by wearing granma's shoes! Personally I get very angry when I see a girl reducing her femininity by wearing some strange thingies on their foot, because "that's cool". This doesn't mean you should wear heels all the time, there are other options, but use them whenever it's appropriate. Yes, I know the feet problems that might arise with wearing heels, but just get used to it - it's worth a little effort.